Hello Fam ♥, Welcome back to my blog! I do not know if i should say i know why, but i have always gotten this question from my friends and even people i have barely known. Mostly along the lines of  “How did you know he/she is the one?”, “Okay, how do you know who to settle for?”, “What signs did you see in your husband that made you decide he was the right one?”, “Are there particular traits a person must show?”. After my last post, it was no surprise that i  also got similar messages in my dm and i choose to addressRead More →

Hey guys! Welcome back to my blog! Shout out to all them mommas in the house, i hope you find this helpful. If this is your first time here you are most welcome. Quickly browse through previous post in this series here and here Continuing the series on while you are expecting, here is something else to have at the back of your mind while you are rocking that pretty bumP STOCK UP ON YOUR UNDERWEAR Here is what nobody really hammers on when it comes to pregnancy essentials (especially in the part of the world where i am from). While you are expecting, exceptRead More →

For a very long time, the idea of love has been and is still being considered overrated. I would like to think this is true, however it worries that the act of being committed in love merely takes the back seat. Even those who have been miserably hurt still find love again. Leading up to Valentines day and even after, i realized that some people where all about having a “bae” for the essence of getting Valentine gifts to show off on social media, and some others preferred to act all tough and self content. I like the whole self love game going on andRead More →

Satisfy your cravings There is nothing wrong with a special cheat treat, if you are not one of those people with the weird kind of cravings. Don’t you agree with me that its okay to give your body what it wants once in a while? They say that resisting the urge to give into your cravings is a sign of self discipline. I think the real test is in being disciplined enough to set the limits when choosing to satisfying the craving. Before i go on. their is a medical belief that when you have cravings, the particular craving is related to something your bodyRead More →

It is the month of love and i am certain you have heard the cliche gist of how everyday should be valentine’s day BUT, my people!  I do not agree. That school of thought holds no water in my opinion. Some extra effort at thoughtfulness will suffice, bearing in mind that it does not have to break the bank while at it. In the midst of a busy schedule in this current age, mothers are working extra hours to support their homes and make sure our children get the best, i think valentine’s day is a good day to take a breather and perhaps getRead More →

Hello guys! My name is Ijay, Welcome to my blog. January is gone guys wow! How has it been? I swear this adulting thing is not beans, i miss being a child seriously. Through the years, the transition from childhood to teenage to adulthood has got me thinking hard and reflecting a lot lately. I miss the days i never had to worry about the things that keep me up late at night now. My younger brothers and sisters out there, you guys have no idea how good you have things rolling for you now as someone is busy adulting for you. You had betterRead More →

Over the years there are a few things i have learnt and i am sharing in this series of post to make someone out there have the best moments while it lasts. While this appears to be the most exciting time of your life, so much of uncertainty looms over every passing day. Especially for first time mums, it is like a feeling of euphoric expectancy sandwiched in sheets of discomfort and unease. Well, the only way forward, i would say is to keep it moving, there is no time to mark time.   Build that Relationship The journey of a life time of mother andRead More →

Hmmmm…..guys! the past two weeks has been real. I don’t even know how i feel about 2017 at this point anymore. God knows how much i looked forward to this year, I can not say much for now though but i know he is full of pleasant surprises. This is actually a throw back picture of me but, this post could not wait till thursday. The pictures above were taken on Friday,22nd January 2016. I had not realized i was pregnant at the time. So, I remember taking my material to my tailor 4 months down the line and i told her to use myRead More →

Wow! the pages of 2017 are flipping real fast. Its day 9 already, how has it been for you? Its okay if you are still trying to find your bearing. I have seen on many social media platforms and even some particular Instagram handles that it is a year of “savagery”. For some reason i find it hard to play the devil’s advocate on this one. So, perhaps you don’t have a plan and intend to go with the flow, you know what? not having a plan is a plan in it self. However, if your the ultimate goal as a savage is to growRead More →

Whats up guys! Happy New Year! I have actually been waiting for 2017 since July last year…yea… july “last year”. Okay ..for a moment that sounded like it was not correct. I paused to make sure i was saying the right thing. I really cant wait to see what this year holds for us, as individuals and as a nation. I am really looking forward to a #betternaija. So yes! Last year was the most exciting and also most challenging year of my life but i came out stronger than in the beginning. I went into 2016 more worried than excited but some how theRead More →