For a very long time, the idea of love has been and is still being considered overrated. I would like to think this is true, however it worries that the act of being committed in love merely takes the back seat. Even those who have been miserably hurt still find love again.
Leading up to Valentines day and even after, i realized that some people where all about having a “bae” for the essence of getting Valentine gifts to show off on social media, and some others preferred to act all tough and self content. I like the whole self love game going on and i am an advocate for that by the way, but it should not be at the detriment of your opportunity to find true love or more so to enjoy that special friendship someone is offering you.
I get it!, you may have been shattered too many times, you think its your fault?
Well, you are the one who has chosen to accept that lie as your reality and and embody it. It is that resentment towards yourself that others see and interpret as negative energy when they come around you.
Guess what, I think it will be your fault if you rather miss out on the great things in life because you think you can or are doing GOOD all by your self. Truth is, GREAT things can happen …and will happen with the right relationships. Be willing to take a chance and love again!
Leave behind the shadows of failed relationships and step into a new light. Open up your heart and find that one person that will bring out the best in you. You are doing good all by your self, but dear you can be great!
You have been healing for too long, there is a new start waiting for you, Shake off yesterdays scars, step out today revived and embrace the victories that have been waiting for the best version of you.
Take off every veil of sorrow over your face and brighten someones life as you reciprocate with your smile. You will be giving the universe a reason to make you happier. Be sweet again and chic altogether, Love is waiting to find you. #lawofattraction You can not give what you do not have and you can not get what you can not give. Love yourself enough to dispel bitterness, then you can attract the right kind of love to make you fall in love again. The good thing is that you are going in with a better mindset and experience.
For the dudes its easy to deal with these things or even act the part, but my ladies! you deserve to get all the love in the world! Finding love is not an achievement but if you can, find love again, get that bonus and be better together!
See you soon ……xoxo